Saturday, December 1, 2012

Wish List...


I wake up in the middle of the night,
I must tell u dat happens quite often.

No i don’t walk in the sleep,
The mind is jus overloaded.

It needs someone to listen,
So wakes me up to tell me,
To check up on me if im dead.

So many things i say it back
Then it jus falls back to sleep

That’s the cycle i follow
Day and night
Dawn and twilight
I look back and i think.
I lie awake and i count...
My eyes do but the mind doesn't even blink.

I recall i wanted to learn to swim
I remember wishing an emblem
Baby eyes saw me float through a waltz
And grown up wrote the acknowledgement page
Through ages there’s a dream of finding a soul...
Felt the desire to be there... touch a mark
Now the desire at the night is evermore,
As the dawn breaks, it just a wish-list.

Monday, November 19, 2012

Revelations Series- Part 1


The Art of decision making.

Firstly, i must mention the disclaimer here. Even though the title suggests, i must declare that i do not know much about this art, leave alone perfecting it.

I just have happened to come across some favorite 'revelations' yet again

We often find ourselves at the cross roads. What to do? What to choose? What's right? What's ethical.

These crossroads have been there since we came into existence. 
Is it a boy or a girl? What should be the name? 
The one with a worthy meaning or the one that sounds good? 
What should i wear today. Should i save money and take a metro or should i take a cab and reach on time. Should i choose money or love?

But, the questions never end. And it's good in a way. Cos they give life, a flow.

Recently, what i discovered about these DMDs (decision making dilemmas, as i call them) is that it's not the choices that confuse us. Instead, it's what we expect to see once we make the choice.

E.g. Red or Black?
Red- He loves red on me.
Black- Black looks great on me. Plus i have better dresses in Black.

The Unknown- Should i dress up for me, the occasion or him??

It's this 'unknown milestone' that occurs after every crossroad.

One formula that time has taught me to solve the DDMs is to keep the 'unknown' aside for a moment. See the choices in hand and make the choice as per what i know at the least. Cos once we tick mark our answer aloud, we also start getting the answers from the unknown as it starts showing itself.

We need to put our choice of characters first without worrying much of the screenplay. The story will complete itself.









Revelations!!


Just a thought! Revelations occur when we spend time with ourselves (which we hardly do, cos we are so out of practice).

Answers to questions like, why, how, when and why me, mostly occur in such times with the 'self'.

Why did i not get promoted. Or more so, how come he/she got promoted? What if he gets the opportunity before me? When will i get noticed? What am i doing here? How long will it take me to get there? Why don't they understand me? Etc. Etc.

Only when we forget to think of these questions and give it a rest, suddenly in the quiet, the revelations occur. And all these disturbing questions go poof! 

And that's the time we smile without a reason.

I am fully aware that we have enough meditative tips floating around these days in this 'yuga' of transformation', as they say. The arts of primitive times have proved their need and power.

So, without mentioning the need to sit with your own self, i shall take your leave.

Saturday, October 20, 2012

SOTY: Movie of the Year???

Flick of the week- Student of the Year. 

The movie can be described in one phrase, which appeared at the end of it- 'A Karan Johar Movie'. 
It was indeed! The story was a complete masaala one which could be used to have a fun evening with friends. If still in college, you might like it a little more and if passed, then you might like it for the nostalgia it will bring. 
But, if you expect a mature, well scripted story or a well crafted climax then you are expecting too much. When you got movies like My name is Khan, We are family, you feel that now Karan is way past that Kuch Kuch Hota Hai phase. Instead, this movie will take you right back there. Its has many common elements: A love triangle, a funny Dean (K2H2 had a funny principal played by Anupam Kher), old song sequences, barbie doll like rich daughters, a cute/funny sardar etc. 

But, surprisingly you find a sequence very much similar to a non- K Jo movie. The screenplay rolls as a story recalled and narrated by a group of friends waiting for the protagonists. I'm sure you were able to recall the movie like 'Jaane tu ya jaane na' if not 'Dil chahta hai', where the friends waited for the leads to enter at the end, to take the story to its climax. K Jo might have always expressed his love openly for the yester year's cinema but not really ever used the crutches of the contemporary ideas. 

However, the movie could be praised for its freshness brought by the new faces both in the lead as well as the support cast. Sana (who played Shahrukh's daughter then) from K2H2 was also given her due. We hope to see the new lead star cast on the screen soon.

My biases force me to mention the choreographers- Remo, Bosco Caesar & the music directors- Vishal Shekhar who stole the show for me. 

The music, dance, locales and the fashion fiesta,as always at the end saved the day for this typpical bolly'k'ood flick!

How do you rate the movie lemme know. And my first review (ever!) too. 




Sunday, March 18, 2012

   
  The most inspiring Leaders and their impact   
                                                   

  
                                                         [PART- 1]



Not the cry, but the flight of a wild duck leads the flock to fly and follow.

This quote defines the idea of a true leader to a great extent. There are many people who choose to not to walk on the path drawn by others and carve their own way. Such are the people who make their own destiny and are not the mere puppets of their fate. These are the great souls who are remembered as Leaders. 

But, in this golden league too, I have come to believe, that there are three categories. One is the set of those, whose outcry is so loud, that it tells the whole world that a change is to be seen and they are determined to bring it. Another set is of those who say and do things quietly, prepare a task force and wait to roar ‘yalgaar’! Third set is of those who wait patiently and never want to attack. Their fight is not for revenge. It is about a vision. It is about bringing an idea into existence and sketching it on the very face of the world so that it can be remembered.

It would be quite demeaning to say that which of these categories has the most inspiring examples, because each of these sets has their own tales of inspiring leadership.

The times that we live in have seen many revolutions and thus, many revolutionaries. Anna Hazare’s movement was one of the closest quests for changes in my life time. I have seen the movement, met the people who were involved in it, and also have had wished to become a part of it in some way. May be it was not for the cause primarily but, for the whole glamor that came with it. May be it was for the ‘feel good factor’, which comes by being a part of any big movement. 

The fragmented stories of great leaders and their struggle for grand causes have made the youth think that, it must have been glamorous to be heroic. The distance from history and literature has made us literate but, not educated holistically. Thus, we pick up half torn excerpts from the past and try and portray them in our lives. This is why I would not use my limited knowledge to judge the youth’s take on leadership and rather stick to my own.

The task of bottoming down to the most inspiring leader has been the most challenging aspect of this assignment. The fact that writing this composition would not be as difficult as choosing the protagonist was very aptly deduced earlier. Thus, I wandered through my memory to find that one personality which has impacted me the most. Now the criterion of this ‘impact’ could be several. This is because there is not a tale but a series of incidents and decisions that make these personalities, an inspiring leader. So, I collected a fragment of each of these tales and a personality from all the times that fascinate me.

The Greatest Mythological Leader: Krishna
Our idea of leadership develops from our very childhood. We all have, at least once, idealized a ‘Hero’ in that phase. We saw that ideal figure as the biggest source of inspiration and tried to even imitate it to see how it feels like to be to be him. I was narrated about one such hero when I was little. It was an epic. Even today I am ensnared by the epic of Mahabharata. 

And the leading figure which has inspired me time and again is no other but Lord Krishna. For me he has been the epitome of leadership. He has been the pivot of all the changes that turned the fate of many people, of many empires and their kings. He is often called a mythological character, and is believed to exist in times that are different from now. But, I can relate the scenario of this epic with the issues of every house hold now. Every case of corruption and injustice can be co-related to the reasons why this war took place. I believe him to be the very first leader who led hundreds and thousands of lives with his wit, cleverness, patience, charm and righteousness.  

He supported the Pandavas for he believed they were wronged. He was bound by the relations but he knew where he belonged and where he wanted to lead people. The most ancient arts of persuasion, motivation, coaching and leading an army were all exhibited by him. He also knew how to change the rules when the game demands.  

He led Arjuna not only in the battle but, also coached him for a better life. This was one of his most beautiful qualities. He wanted to change people from the roots, empower them with the ability to make better decisions. His words of wisdom and the way he won the hearts of people were the two qualities which a leader must have. His gift of gab and ability to exemplify all his saying made him the true winner and a populist. 

Men do less than they ought, unless they do all they can.
His most inspiring words are known to be those which turned the decision of Arjuna, when he had lost his morale completely and the battle too, in his mind. The way he motivated him to raise weapons against his own relatives in the Bhagwat Gita, was only what a true leader could do. 

Inside his heart he always knew that the Kauravas were not being fair to the Pandavas, yet he gave a fair turn to all his cousins to use his power for the final war. When both Duryodhana and Arjuna asked him to help for the war, he gave them a chance to choose one between his army and himself. Also, he promised to never pick up a weapon himself while the war. He agreed to give Duryodhana whatever he asked for, to help him in the war. Thus, he gave his whole army to him and then went on to become Arjun’s Saarthi. But, it was his cleverness and skill to analyse the strength and weakness of each person on the opposition, which made Pandavas win the war.

If we take away the super natural aspects and few legends from this epic then he could be a role model for any style of leadership in any time or era.